Friendship, Hill Farming

Vengeance!

Our not so imaginary neighbor, Iolo, continues to exact vengeance for the naive notion that we might have what it takes to be hill farmers. The inspiration for this character is, in reality, a humorous and generous man, but one who cannot bear to see things, that should be done, left undone. He, like us, is now ancient but his drive and energy are legendary.

Woodpile 2015

Recently we have seen him anxiously eyeing our log pile — cut 9 years ago. Bill said, ‘I can see it is worrying him’, and well it might — all that useful timber edging over the limit of well seasoned into the realm of porous, wet and rotting, something should be done!

When I see one of the younger members of his family, I do something — I arrange for them to come with their tractor saw-bench and chop it all up so we can stack it in the dry for burning in the wood burner next winter — rates were discussed. ’Dad will want to supervise — it’s his kit but he’s not very well at the moment — we’ll arrange to come when he’s better’.

That was all Iolo needed — next day, shortly after a frosty dawn, we heard a strange noise, ‘That can’t be a night jar? It sounds like a distant chain saw?’

There he was, not a tractor in sight, but Iolo attacking our log pile like a man possessed. The worst thing about a chain saw is starting it — once roaring away only a fool would stop it — Iolo is no fool, so on he roared while, shamed, we carted the great cheeses down to the new wood pile and graded and piled them in the dry.

Great inroads — couldn’t photograph the master at work — too busy carting.

Later we re-possessed the shared log-splitter from Roger, next door, and after a refresher course and explanation of recent modifications we split the big ones — no splinters, no fingers removed! 

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Friendship

Christmas Greetings!

Best wishes at this testing time to all my followers throughout the world. As the gods of our forefathers have been hijacked by ambitious humans for their own ends, platitudes stick in my throat so I’ll just send you all a little love.

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Friendship, Medical Education

Reunion at the Athenaeum!

50 years – passed in the blink of an eye – and here we are all together again! Well not quite all, some of my old medical school contemporaries didn’t make it.   The Royal Free School of Medicine for Women (and the odd privileged man) has a far-reaching diaspora encompassing the whole globe, not to mention the afterlife. 

We remembered with affection our fallen comrades and exchanged news of the beautiful ones (those with perfect teeth and not a hint of a wrinkle) who still work in the USA, and those trapped by new lives, love and family in the Antipodes.  We welcomed back the returners, those who have spent a career in the sunshine and understand politics and poverty in a way that we never will.

Meeting people that you once knew well after a gap of 50 years is a daunting experience – you can’t take you eyes off them – trying to fit the image in your memory over the features that confront you.  Why has everyone shrunk? Perhaps the younger generations are not just getting bigger and bigger – perhaps it’s not just old girls that get osteoporosis. 

It is marvellous to realise how superficial I was when I was young, and I am sure I was not alone. How wrong we can be about how people will turn out.  Medicine changes people as does the illness and trauma we survive.  The shy become confident, the brash are moderated — they were perhaps always kind. Those intimidating cool dudes warm a little and the differences that we felt singled us out, and were never mentioned then, are now freely admitted and laughed about…  “I’d never have guessed that about you!”

We had a wonderful meal together and talked until our heads buzzed in the heart and heat of London, in the Athenaeum, a club selective for achievement, not background.  A suitable venue, as our chairman reminded us, to re-unite students selected by the doyennes of the Royal Free.  Selected by different criteria from other medical schools – perhaps primarily for vocation and the suspicion of as yet unfulfilled potential.  We owe them a debt of gratitude.

Royal Free Hospital School of Medicine (photo by Holysp via Wikipedia)
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