I have been getting to know the stranger who will soon be in our midst — the new arrival to challenge all our preconceptions and established relationships — presently a nudge to my proffered hand, like the mumble of a presence in another room, but soon to be much more.
You see, nothing is ever what it seems — you are not what you seem — not what you were a moment ago — time changes everything.
A first baby, at any time, changes a child into a parent and sends the parent from centre stage to the wings — maybe a relief after 35 years in a leading role, to emerge in a new role which could be tricky but could be amusing, even liberating.
A baby makes little sisters into big sisters; little brothers become big brothers, mentors and protectors; siblings become aunties, next in line of responsibility in case of disaster — and dogs… Sorry, Pedro, but dogs become a threat.
We are all looking forward, or are oblivious, to our impending rebirth, meanwhile we wait.
dianaashworth 
I’m certainly looking forward to entering the grandparent stage in a few years. It seems like you get a lot of the fun side of parenting (playing games, visits to the zoo), but without most of the tough stuff.
Absolutely!
This is lovely Diana. We’ve had the wedding now so I’m another step forward, perhaps in a couple of years I’ll be a “Gran”!
Trial by Hat — pleased to hear you survived!
Beautifully written and I couldn’t agree more. Look forward to more of your work.
Thank you John-Charles and I yours!